Marriage??

Marriage is hard work. Thats the truth..

Cheryl mumbled, "Look, don't you think we both could find someone else we could get along with more naturally, not work so hard?
"I'm sure there are people out there who would be better matches for both of you," I admitted. " I don't think that means that your marriage needs to be shelved to go find them. The odds are you'll end up marrying someone who wasn't better for you at all, maybe even worse. The painful truth is that marriage helps to bring out the areas of our lives we need to work on. You'd just be taking the same flaws into your next marriage. Divorce is just a quick fix. I believe that maximum growth is found in your own marriage. The pursuit of a 'new, improved' spouse is usually an escapist fantasy."


Many people love to live in fairy tales, dun they?

Who would want to have the time to work things out?

Maybe we are not even thinking about marriage, thats why we dun work that hard?

There are so many other things than to just love, who would want to handle more burden when they want someone else to handle it for them?